Difference is the state, nature and character created by God with the aim that humans know each other, interact, understand each other and benefit one another. Understanding and addressing differences and indeed depends on our perspective on these differences. If we view it as a threat, then difference will be a difficult problem to overcome. However, if the difference is seen as the nature of humanity and the gift of the Most Perfect, then the difference will feel beautiful coloring our lives. Just as God create men and women. They are created with different attitudes but they are also destined to pair up to complement each other.
Women and men are two different creatures. In fact there is a book entitle "Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus" (John Gray) the title describes the difference between girls and boys in broad outlines that have various aspects that are different from each other.
Men and women speak different language. Good communication is the key. mars and venus language have dsame words, but different meanings. This caused a mistake between them.
women talk for express her feelings. To express her feelings, women use figurative words. Men mistakenly understand their meaning and instead follow their literal meaning. Therefore, men's responses do not support at all. When women say A it means B, while men think if they said A it means A. for example, when women is asked “why?” she always said “I am okay” so the man will think if nothing happened. But The woman's intention for the statement is actually : “I feel you did not understand what I mean at all and does not care about my feeling.”
While the biggest challenge faced by women is interpreting the silence of men. Men talk based on what is important to talk. before men are ready to speak, the man will first "chew" the information and reflect on it carefully. at that time, a man will be silent. Remember, men will be alone in the cave if there is a problem. This silence does not mean he does not love her partner anymore, but this disturbs a woman because she will be silent if her words will hurt or if she does not trust someone and does not want to relate anymore.when men are asked and answered “I am fine”, a woman might think that "I am not angry and I do not care!" in fact man a man wants to say "I'm fine. I can overcome my disappointment. I don't need help. Thank you."
Without proper integration, communication between men and women will be bad. The key to the success of a relationship is good communication. But this requires cooperation and hard work from both parties.
Women and men are two different creatures. In fact there is a book entitle "Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus" (John Gray) the title describes the difference between girls and boys in broad outlines that have various aspects that are different from each other.
Men and women speak different language. Good communication is the key. mars and venus language have dsame words, but different meanings. This caused a mistake between them.
women talk for express her feelings. To express her feelings, women use figurative words. Men mistakenly understand their meaning and instead follow their literal meaning. Therefore, men's responses do not support at all. When women say A it means B, while men think if they said A it means A. for example, when women is asked “why?” she always said “I am okay” so the man will think if nothing happened. But The woman's intention for the statement is actually : “I feel you did not understand what I mean at all and does not care about my feeling.”
While the biggest challenge faced by women is interpreting the silence of men. Men talk based on what is important to talk. before men are ready to speak, the man will first "chew" the information and reflect on it carefully. at that time, a man will be silent. Remember, men will be alone in the cave if there is a problem. This silence does not mean he does not love her partner anymore, but this disturbs a woman because she will be silent if her words will hurt or if she does not trust someone and does not want to relate anymore.when men are asked and answered “I am fine”, a woman might think that "I am not angry and I do not care!" in fact man a man wants to say "I'm fine. I can overcome my disappointment. I don't need help. Thank you."
Without proper integration, communication between men and women will be bad. The key to the success of a relationship is good communication. But this requires cooperation and hard work from both parties.
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